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James Christopher Estetter
November 19, 1966 ~ January 9, 2017 (age 50) 50 Years Old Light a Candle
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A candle was lit by Deb
on November 19, 2020 3:49 PM
Message from Moises
April 17, 2020 10:13 PM
he was my boss in a project in Arabia and I respected him a lot as a person and even as a job boss
Was a Great Person
sorry of my bad englesh
Moises
Was a Great Person
sorry of my bad englesh
Moises
Message from Deborah
May 21, 2020 3:01 PM
Thank you, Moises, for your kind words about my brother.
Deborah
Deborah
A candle was lit by behzad kazerani
on January 15, 2020 5:01 PM
Message from behzad kazerani
January 15, 2020 5:00 PM
I was so shocked and saddened when I heard James's passing last week through a mutual friend. Whist it has been a while since his untimely departure from this earth, never-the-less I offer my belated heart felt condolences. I will cherish the memories of a friendship I had. Behzad
Message from Deborah
May 21, 2020 3:06 PM
Thank you, Behzad, for your kind words. Cherish the memories of the friendship you had with my brother.
Deborah
Deborah
Message from Glenn Wilson
June 28, 2019 11:39 AM
Was getting ready to watch the upcoming Tour De France and was thinking of Chris. He was a great friend and I feel blessed to have the years to share stories online and on our occasional happy hours at little woodrows.
RIP Friend.
RIP Friend.
A candle was lit by Mother and Dad
on November 24, 2018 12:24 PM
A candle was lit by Deb
on November 19, 2018 7:25 AM
A candle was lit by I still miss you, I still love you. I always will. -Deb
on November 19, 2018 7:25 AM
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on June 16, 2018 8:19 PM
A candle was lit by Mother
on January 17, 2018 8:26 PM
Message from Angel
January 9, 2018 6:06 PM
Missing you terribly today, among other days. You would be so proud of the things Allison has accomplished and is going to accomplish in these next few months...years. We will love you always! RIP
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on January 9, 2018 5:58 PM
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Message from David Villec
April 10, 2017 10:56 PM
Dude, I called you tonight and your phone was NIS? WTF? This is totally not cool. We still have stuff we need to do. I remember all the crap we did all the time and looked forward to doing more, or at least talking about it. As we used to say in our Beavis & Butthead days: Jimmy crapped corn, and I don't care. I miss you, you jerk. You're going make me cry.
Message from Seattle Washington
February 28, 2017 10:32 AM
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Message from Deborah Estetter Nichols
March 1, 2017 10:35 PM
Thank you from the family of Chris Estetter
A candle was lit by Angel
on February 15, 2017 2:16 PM
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on February 10, 2017 4:58 AM
A candle was lit by Mother and Dad on February 3, 2017
on February 3, 2017 9:26 PM
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on February 1, 2017 9:26 PM
A candle was lit by Deborah
on January 31, 2017 3:30 PM
Message from Bill Miller (KBR)
January 30, 2017 4:48 PM
This is really sad.
I remember when he worked with Jim Hooper and I on the Texaco project. He kept us laughing.
Those were the good ole days.
He was always going 100mph.
He was just a good natured guy.
We almost lost him one day when he was driving out to Lyondell and ran into a car stopped in the middle of the freeway. Air bag saved his life.
I hated to see him leave KBR, but he got really bored. James was like that. If he wasn't being challenged he got bored quickly. I kind of lost touch with him after he left KBR.
Those of us at KBR that knew James have very fond memories. My condolences to his daughter and his parents. His light had shone very bright for much too short a time on this earth.
I remember when he worked with Jim Hooper and I on the Texaco project. He kept us laughing.
Those were the good ole days.
He was always going 100mph.
He was just a good natured guy.
We almost lost him one day when he was driving out to Lyondell and ran into a car stopped in the middle of the freeway. Air bag saved his life.
I hated to see him leave KBR, but he got really bored. James was like that. If he wasn't being challenged he got bored quickly. I kind of lost touch with him after he left KBR.
Those of us at KBR that knew James have very fond memories. My condolences to his daughter and his parents. His light had shone very bright for much too short a time on this earth.
Message from Brad Wilson
January 16, 2017 11:46 AM
Uncle Chris,
Finding the ability through the tears to share my memories has proven to be a tough feat. This world has lost a brilliant, outgoing, funny, and loving person that I have the privilege of calling my uncle. You have been a great inspiration to me since I was a kid and you still are to this very day.
We shared a lot of time together in my childhood. Whether it was going to bike races, riding jet skis at the river, or me staying up at night on the blue couch at Gram and Grandy's waiting for you to get home so we could watch TV together, all of my memories of you will never be forgotten. There has never been a question that I've asked that you didn't have an answer to. Whether that answer was right, wrong, or indifferent, I knew I could always put my confidence in what you said because you would never lead me astray. I have always looked up to you and I always will.
Though I can never replace you as a dad in Allison's life, I can promise I will always be there for her in every way I can. She is such an intelligent young woman and I'm positive she has a great future ahead of her. We will see to it that her success is nothing less than what you would expect of her.
As we miss you tears stream down our face,
They’re tears of sorrow, sadness, and filled with base,
We wonder, blame, and try to make sense,
But our inquiries fall at our own expense.
It’s hard to imagine how we can forge on,
Our hearts continue to hurt because you are gone,
This grief that we’re feeling is really tough,
It’s made all our lives incredibly rough.
We could continue this heartache with nothing to show,
Or we could remember the great times and try to displace the woe,
Our memories we will continue to try to embrace,
As we remember you tears stream down our face.
You will forever be in my heart.
Love and miss you,
Brad
Finding the ability through the tears to share my memories has proven to be a tough feat. This world has lost a brilliant, outgoing, funny, and loving person that I have the privilege of calling my uncle. You have been a great inspiration to me since I was a kid and you still are to this very day.
We shared a lot of time together in my childhood. Whether it was going to bike races, riding jet skis at the river, or me staying up at night on the blue couch at Gram and Grandy's waiting for you to get home so we could watch TV together, all of my memories of you will never be forgotten. There has never been a question that I've asked that you didn't have an answer to. Whether that answer was right, wrong, or indifferent, I knew I could always put my confidence in what you said because you would never lead me astray. I have always looked up to you and I always will.
Though I can never replace you as a dad in Allison's life, I can promise I will always be there for her in every way I can. She is such an intelligent young woman and I'm positive she has a great future ahead of her. We will see to it that her success is nothing less than what you would expect of her.
As we miss you tears stream down our face,
They’re tears of sorrow, sadness, and filled with base,
We wonder, blame, and try to make sense,
But our inquiries fall at our own expense.
It’s hard to imagine how we can forge on,
Our hearts continue to hurt because you are gone,
This grief that we’re feeling is really tough,
It’s made all our lives incredibly rough.
We could continue this heartache with nothing to show,
Or we could remember the great times and try to displace the woe,
Our memories we will continue to try to embrace,
As we remember you tears stream down our face.
You will forever be in my heart.
Love and miss you,
Brad
Message from Angela Schmadl
January 20, 2017 8:37 AM
Brad I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Message from Angel Estetter
January 17, 2017 8:27 PM
I love you Brad.
Message from Penny Bowden
January 14, 2017 10:41 AM
To Deborah and Estetter Family, I am Glenn's sister and Deborah's friend. Our family sends our sincere condolances for you all during this difficult time. Prayers for your family and for Chris. God bless you all. Much love, Penny Nichols Bowden and family.
Message from deborah nichols
January 18, 2017 7:43 PM
Thanks for the kind thoughts and prayers, Penny. Love you - Deborah
Message from Ken Fran Erwin
January 14, 2017 9:11 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Remember our Lord and Savior for comfort in these trying times.
Love, Kenneth Erwin, REL Class of '57.
Remember our Lord and Savior for comfort in these trying times.
Love, Kenneth Erwin, REL Class of '57.
Message from Joe Tucker
January 14, 2017 8:59 AM
Chris was a good friend and college roommate. We had some great times and shared a lot with each other. He was a great man with a huge heart. I will always hold him dearly in my heart.
Message from Jared Wilson
January 13, 2017 11:26 PM
Uncle Chris,
Thank you for being the best uncle that a nephew could ever dream of having. It is going to be tough not having you around, but I will always cherish the great memories that we have shared. I have always been inspired by your intelligence and thoroughly enjoyed your sense of humor. You truly have one of the brightest minds I know.
I want you to know that I will always be there for Allison and provide her with any support she needs. I know that you will be watching over her and get to enjoy in all of the successes she has in life. She is going to make you very proud.
I love you more than you can ever imagine and can't wait until I get to see you again someday. Take care of Isaiah for me and tell him that I love him.
Love you,
Jared
Thank you for being the best uncle that a nephew could ever dream of having. It is going to be tough not having you around, but I will always cherish the great memories that we have shared. I have always been inspired by your intelligence and thoroughly enjoyed your sense of humor. You truly have one of the brightest minds I know.
I want you to know that I will always be there for Allison and provide her with any support she needs. I know that you will be watching over her and get to enjoy in all of the successes she has in life. She is going to make you very proud.
I love you more than you can ever imagine and can't wait until I get to see you again someday. Take care of Isaiah for me and tell him that I love him.
Love you,
Jared
Message from Angel Estetter
January 17, 2017 8:27 PM
I love you Jared.
Message from Betsy Anderson
January 13, 2017 9:22 PM
Deborah, I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your little brother. You and your family are in my prayers. Betsy Anderson
Message from deborah nichols
January 15, 2017 9:49 AM
Thank you, Betsy. I hope you are well and appreciate you reaching out with such comforting words. God bless you.
Deborah
Deborah
Message from Silky
January 13, 2017 9:12 PM
Dear the Estetter Family,
I was very sad to hear that James unexpectedly passed away. Although I had worked with him for only less than half of a year, he had very willingly taught me a lot of great engineering lessons. He had a great interest in passing his knowledge to the younger generations. From my work experience with him, he was no doubt a man with integrity, diligence, and intelligence.
May the Lord comfort this family and heal each of you through this tough time. I am very sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Silky
Fluor Corporation
I was very sad to hear that James unexpectedly passed away. Although I had worked with him for only less than half of a year, he had very willingly taught me a lot of great engineering lessons. He had a great interest in passing his knowledge to the younger generations. From my work experience with him, he was no doubt a man with integrity, diligence, and intelligence.
May the Lord comfort this family and heal each of you through this tough time. I am very sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Silky
Fluor Corporation
Message from Carol Nichols
January 13, 2017 1:08 PM
Even though we only met a couple of times, we love your sister and want to express our condolences. Your mom and dad we met in Vanderpool a few times and want to wish them comfort. Rest easy.
Bob and Carol Nichols
Bob and Carol Nichols
Message from deborah nichols
January 18, 2017 7:47 PM
Thank you for your kind words and condolences. I love you both.
Message from deborah nichols
January 18, 2017 7:46 PM
Carol and Robert - thank you for your kind words and condolences. I love you both.
Message from Love, Jr. & Darlene
January 13, 2017 11:40 AM
Love, Jr. & Darlene purchased the Garden Accent - Those we have held... for the family of James Christopher Estetter.
Message from Blane Vincent
January 13, 2017 8:44 AM
First let me offer my condolences for the loss of James. I worked with him at both SNC-Lavalin and IAG. He was a good man and friend during those times. I most remember laughing with him in the office and enjoying his stories. He will be missed and my deepest sympathy to his family and friends. May the Lord take James and keep him by his side until we see him again.
Message from Angel Estetter
January 13, 2017 7:38 AM
How can I possibly sum up 20 years in a few words....only you and I know...I feel so blessed that through it all you and I were best friends in the end. We survived a lot of nonsense and came out stronger on the other side. We have the most beautiful, smart, hard-headed (thanks) daughter! She will make you proud...I'll see to it. We all miss you terribly...maybe you can see that? I don't know. You always encouraged me and gave me hope so I will just take that with me on this new path. I will make sure Allison's life is filled with love, hope, family & faith. I can't bring you back...but i'll fill your shoes as best i can. Chris, we love you. I will always love you.
Message from Angel Estetter
January 14, 2017 6:49 PM
Thank you sir. Sorry to have met you under such circumstances but truly appreciate all you did and your kind words. God bless you.
Message from Terry Faughtenbery
January 13, 2017 10:56 PM
Missing
Throughout your life there are many people who wander in and out. There are many acquaintances and a few friends, and the loves your life. There is the family that you can't live without.
Those that wander never come to stay. Those that come to stay are forever in your mind. They live in your soul, your past and your future. Those that have passed, leave craters in your soul. They are the ones that you relied on and cared for the most. Some leave a gust of wind, others footprints in your heart.
. Deputy Faughtenbery
Sorry for your loss
Throughout your life there are many people who wander in and out. There are many acquaintances and a few friends, and the loves your life. There is the family that you can't live without.
Those that wander never come to stay. Those that come to stay are forever in your mind. They live in your soul, your past and your future. Those that have passed, leave craters in your soul. They are the ones that you relied on and cared for the most. Some leave a gust of wind, others footprints in your heart.
. Deputy Faughtenbery
Sorry for your loss
Message from Kimberly Addison
January 12, 2017 11:26 PM
My heart goes out to Chris' friends and family. I remember him well, we grew up together from Kindergarten on. We met in Mrs. Braswell's class and rode the bus together. We had lots of classes together through grade school, I even remember trading Charlie's Angels cards with him. I don't think he knew this, but he was my first crush and has always occupied a special place in my heart. Even though I haven't seen Chris in decades, I will miss him in the world. Rest easy old friend.
Message from Kimberly Addison
January 12, 2017 11:23 PM
My heart goes out to Chris' friends and family. I remember him well, we grew up together from Kindergarten on. We met in Mrs. Braswell's class and road the bus together. We had lots of classes together through grade school, I even remember trading Charlie's Angels cards with him. I don't think he knew this, but he was my first crush and has always occupied a special place in my heart. Even though I haven't seen Chris in decades, I will miss him in the world. Rest easy old friend.
January 12, 2017 7:40 PM
With Our Deepest Sympathy Gift Basket was purchased for the family of James Christopher Estetter.
Message from Connie (Cowen) Lattoz
January 12, 2017 7:35 PM
Sally and Jimmy, I am so sorry for the loss of Chris. I cannot imagine what you are going through. My heart is broken and aches for you both as you grieve his death. He was still so young to be taken so soon. He was a good man, so intelligent and successful; I know you were proud of him. Allison, it's not easy to lose a father; I am so sorry for your loss. I know your dad loved you so much and he was proud of you. I pray for the whole family that the Lord will cover you with His hand and give you peace and comfort as you grieve. I pray that precious memories will help block out some of the sadness and help you to feel closer to him. I remember him as a close friend to my son, Mark through thick or thin; as one who was like a member of the family in his high school years coming in and out of my house along with the kids, eating food out of our pantry and drinking our tea and water. He was always welcome, and although I had almost lost contact with him over the years, when we ran into each other again, it brought me joy. God bless you all; my thoughts and prayers are with you!
Message from Wayne Turner
January 12, 2017 6:44 PM
Prayers for the Estetter family. Chris was a great guy. I remember going to his house when we were kids and playing basketball for hours and his Mom and Dad would invite me to eat dinner with them. Rest easy my friend.
Message from Ian Walulek
January 12, 2017 2:03 PM
Estetter Family,
I was so shocked and sad to hear of James untimely passing. May the Lord comfort you all and see you through this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Ian Walulek
International Alliance Group (IAG)
I was so shocked and sad to hear of James untimely passing. May the Lord comfort you all and see you through this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Ian Walulek
International Alliance Group (IAG)
Message from Miranda Reynolds
January 12, 2017 1:06 PM
Allison,
Clayton and I are VERY sorry for the loss of your dad. You are in our prayers daily.
~Miranda Reynolds/Clayton Banks
Clayton and I are VERY sorry for the loss of your dad. You are in our prayers daily.
~Miranda Reynolds/Clayton Banks
Message from Patsy Fitts
January 12, 2017 12:22 PM
Sally, Jimmy & Allison I'm so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Chris but I remember all the stories about y'alls travels together. My thoughts & prayers are with y'all. Love Patsy
Message from Mike Higginbotham
January 12, 2017 11:15 AM
It is impossible to put into words how saddened I am; my thoughts are with Mr. and Mrs. Estetter and the entire family.
Chris was a good friend that I had the pleasure of growing up with from Elementary, through High School, and beyond. We enjoyed many great times together, whether it was riding bikes from daylight to dark through Highlands, going on fishing trips, or competing in sports all through our younger years. I have great memories of our friendship and will always remember him as a great friend and a great person.
Mike Higginbotham
Chris was a good friend that I had the pleasure of growing up with from Elementary, through High School, and beyond. We enjoyed many great times together, whether it was riding bikes from daylight to dark through Highlands, going on fishing trips, or competing in sports all through our younger years. I have great memories of our friendship and will always remember him as a great friend and a great person.
Mike Higginbotham
Message from Alan Cummings
January 12, 2017 10:37 AM
I am sorry to hear of the passing of Chris. We were friends in high school and after for many years often playing basketball at several Highlands basketball courts. May God grant peace, comfort and strength during this difficult time. He left way too early.
God bless,
Alan Cummings.
God bless,
Alan Cummings.
Message from Jeffrey Mcclure
January 12, 2017 8:12 AM
To Jimmy, Sally and the rest of the family.
There are no words I can say that will ease your pain. So sorry for your loss. What I would like to do is remember some great memories.
From the first time I met this little 7 year old very competitive little brat (yes I called him that) to watching him grow up to be a man. We had a lot of competition which I made him earn for I never let him win.
To the time I got to be his coach in Little League (which I was not very good at), to watching him follow us into bicycling and me into bicycling racing. We spent many an hour together riding and many trips to bicycle races. He was definitely stronger than me. To the time he schooled me on racquetball (I was not as good as I thought I was plus he was awesome). To the great times we had on a couple of vacations to Mexico.
These are just some of the good memories I will cherish.
To Allison. You were the highlight of his life. Every time I talked to your dad he would brag about you. Very proud of the grades you made and the great daughter you are. This is a tough time but you have a bright future and lots of people that love you.
Jeff
There are no words I can say that will ease your pain. So sorry for your loss. What I would like to do is remember some great memories.
From the first time I met this little 7 year old very competitive little brat (yes I called him that) to watching him grow up to be a man. We had a lot of competition which I made him earn for I never let him win.
To the time I got to be his coach in Little League (which I was not very good at), to watching him follow us into bicycling and me into bicycling racing. We spent many an hour together riding and many trips to bicycle races. He was definitely stronger than me. To the time he schooled me on racquetball (I was not as good as I thought I was plus he was awesome). To the great times we had on a couple of vacations to Mexico.
These are just some of the good memories I will cherish.
To Allison. You were the highlight of his life. Every time I talked to your dad he would brag about you. Very proud of the grades you made and the great daughter you are. This is a tough time but you have a bright future and lots of people that love you.
Jeff
Message from Mark Cowen
January 12, 2017 7:48 AM
Chris and I were great friends for so many years. He was the best man at my wedding. He had a big heart and was one of the smartest people I ever knew. You left this earth way too early. For many years we ran around together in that maroon 280Z. Lots of good times and we even got into to trouble a time or two. I truly regret that we did not have a chance to talk before you left.
Message from allan & debbie johncock
January 11, 2017 9:23 PM
We only met Chris a year ago, but felt like he had been our friend forever. Allan & Chris connected from the go. We enjoyed good wines and good food. We'll always remember the wonderful stuffed salmon & shrimp he prepared for us. He will be missed. Allan & Debbie.
Message from Scott Wilson
January 11, 2017 8:20 PM
Estetter Family,
My heart aches for you all. I have many fond memories of Chris. I enjoyed being around him and watching him grow from a boy into a man. His sense of humor, his smile, and his laugh made him fun to be around. No matter what challenges he faced throughout his life, there's no doubt in my mind that he loved his family.
May God's love comfort each of you now and in the days to come.
Scott
My heart aches for you all. I have many fond memories of Chris. I enjoyed being around him and watching him grow from a boy into a man. His sense of humor, his smile, and his laugh made him fun to be around. No matter what challenges he faced throughout his life, there's no doubt in my mind that he loved his family.
May God's love comfort each of you now and in the days to come.
Scott
Message from Carol Smith
January 25, 2017 4:02 PM
Dear Estetter family
I am truly sorry to hear of Chris' passing. Chris and my son Richard grew up together playing baseball in Highlands. May Gods grace and healing power sustain you now and through the days ahead.
Carol Smith (formerly Bryant)
I am truly sorry to hear of Chris' passing. Chris and my son Richard grew up together playing baseball in Highlands. May Gods grace and healing power sustain you now and through the days ahead.
Carol Smith (formerly Bryant)
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